36-Year-Old Virgin Reveals The Secrets To Practicing Abstinence

Forty-three-year-old Lakita Garth was a 36-year-old virgin in 2005 when she kissed her boyfriend-turned-husband for the first time. Garth has gone public about her 36 years of virginity and is now helping other women around the world learn how to refrain from s*x prior to marriage.

Excerpts from her interview are below:

On Her Family’s Influence on Her Choice:

In my family, if you had s*x outside of marriage, someone got married, or someone got shot! I come from a line of Christians that believe your faith must impact the culture. It has to go farther than your personal relationship with Christ.

On Choosing a Mate that Is Not Into the Church:

You can’t be the key to his spiritual maturity.

Her Advice to Singles:

To be single was to be undistracted in my devotion to God. Keep your options open. God’s perfect mate for you may not look or sound like your ‘fantasy mate’.

One commenter with the user name “Chris” did not agree with Garth’s advice. He responded to her interview saying:

“The Bible does not make any of the claims that this article makes about s*xual purity before marriage.

The abstinence model of Christianity is an inherited tradition and not a hard and fast line which the Bible draws. “Don’t have s*x before marriage!” they say. Why?

The Bible says we should abstain from “s*xual immorality.” What is s*xual immorality? “s*x before marriage,” they say. Says who? It is a tradition, not an inviolable maxim — a tradition which made sense in earlier cultures where everyone married and they did so at a young age.

s*x before marriage is certainly a risky venture, but articles like these unnecessarily shame devoted lovers who have not yet overcome the logistical hurdles of holding a wedding.

In all honesty, the girl in this article sounds totally self-absorbed/self-righteous, some of the most disgusting traits for a Christian to have.

We should not be holding her up as a model for Christian women.”

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BABY NAMES FROM THE BIBLE

If you are looking to pass on your faith and spiritual beliefs to your child, perhaps a biblical baby name is for you. From classic biblical names like Jacob or Elizabeth to more unique biblical names like Miriam, we have hand-picked some of our favorite spiritual baby names perfect for your baby girl or baby boy.

Biblical baby names have remained a popular choice for parents throughout the years, as evident by the top baby names of the year from the Social Security Administration. The biblical name Jacob has been the most popular boy baby name for 13 years in a row! The name Isabella, which is a Hebrew name meaning “consecrated to God,” has been at the top of the list for many years.

Classic boy biblical names

These traditional biblical names are great All-American names that never go out of style. These names are strong and noble and are a great choice for your baby boy.

• Noah
• Abraham
• Isaac
• Elijah
• Gabriel
• Matthew
• Levi
• Micah
• Zacharias
• Luke

Classic girl biblical names

You will love the traditional sound of these biblical girl baby names. The name Mary has been one of the top baby girl names of the past decade, however there are many other beautiful and traditional biblical girl names.

• Naomi
• Daphne
• Margaret
• Mary
• Elizabeth
• Abigail
• Delilah
• Dinah
• Tabitha
• Priscilla

Unique biblical boy names

If you want a biblical boy name that is a little more unique and fresh, check out some of our favorites!

• Cyrus
• Asher
• Silas
• Josiah
• Solomon
• Saul
• Abel
• Ezekiel
• Gideon
• Moses

Unique biblical girl names

If you want a baby girl name that is biblical, yet unique, these names are perfect for you! They have a spiritual meaning, yet also sound modern and new.

• Damaris
• Esther
• Ariel
• Lily
• Jezebel
• Lydia
• Miriam
• Salome
• Angel

Spiritual baby names

Another idea when searching for a biblical baby name is to consider a spiritual or a virtue baby name that describes a characteristic you hope your child will have. For girls, some great names include Faith,Hope, Grace, Mercy, Trinity or Charity. There aren’t quite as many options for boys with virtue names, however the names Justice or Chance are both great options.

The baby girl name Nevaeh, which is heaven spelled backwards, is actually ranked number 35 on the Social Security Administration’ s list of the top 100 baby names of the year. Jessica Alba gave both her daughters the spiritual names Honor and Haven, as did Gwyneth Paltrow who named her son Moses. Many parents of siblings or twins are opting to give all their children spiritual names.

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For Couples:5 Things he wants you to say in bed

For a man, nothing is s*xier than a woman who is loud in bed and participates in a little dirty talk. Below are five things your man is dying to hear you mouth off about.

Him

Men want to know that you're not visualizing someone else when you're with them or just phoning it in, so although it may seem basic, saying (or screaming out) his name in bed is a good way to ease into dirty talk. Punctuate it with a few "ooohs" and moans and it will be more than enough to get him going.

The Action

If you're being a tad quiet, many men will take the initiative and let you know what they'd like to hear by peppering you with questions, such as "What am I doing to you?" and "How does that feel?" 

In this case, simply describing the mise en scène and how you feel will suffice. However, don't feel like obligated to use cuss words if it's not your style. Instead, take a cue from romance novels and utilize under-used verbs like "pulse," "swell," and "throb."

Your Fantasies

Nothing counts when it's said in between the sheets, so if you're feeling confident, why not seize the opportunity and tell him all of your craziest fantasies and dreams? If the thought leaves you tongue-tied, try practicing in front of a mirror – especially the particularly naughty parts – until you are able to say them without feeling embarrassed or laughing.

Stock Dirty Phrases

Sometimes just having s*x is intimate enough, and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest desires, especially in a new relationship, is too much. However, you don't want to be mute. For those times, any of the following stock s*xy phrases will work: 

"Oh, yeah, right there!" 

"That feels amazing" 

"Don't stop, harder" 

"I want you so bad" 

"Give it to me!" 

"You animal!"

Get Creative

Men can be just as insecure as women; so sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all that's needed to let them know that you are enjoying what they're doing. Sometimes a few soft purrs can be just as effective as a well-rehearsed speech, so don't be afraid to get creative. Whatever you do to cheerlead them along will make your bedroom romp all the more exciting.

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